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​A PLAYER'S PERSPECTIVE

Ask A Hustler #14: Why Do Liars Profit?

4/29/2015

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There’s an old saying, “A murderer will kill you. A thief will steal from you. But you’ll never know where to stand with a liar…”

In this podcast, Ask A Hustler dives into a little human psychology as we discover the answer to the question, “Why do liars profit?”

Why do we give our time, energy, attention, love and even money to those that make it their business (literally) to lie to us? Do they understand quirks inherent in human nature and use these against us?

The simple answer is, “Yes!”

Tune into this Game I’ll be lacing you with as I explain 3 very important natural human desires that people use to prey on those less informed. This trip is going to be an eye-opener because the reality is – people would rather buy into a fantasy than the truth. It has been this way for a long time and it will continue until people refuse to let a liar use human nature to put “hooks” in them.

Once you’re “hooked”, a person can pull you in any direction they want you to go. And even drain your pockets in the process.

All Game, all the time... Learn to recognize and shut down this type of deception. Soak it up and listen in now!

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A Brief Word About Regrets

4/22/2015

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This will be a short post. I've been working on a few other projects this week (Oh! Before I forget. Uncommon Sense Adviser Subscribers, check your emails tomorrow!) so I had to pull back on this week’s blog. But I did want to share some positive thoughts with you.

So I was sitting in the thick of Atlanta traffic. I usually don’t ride with any music on. It’s quiet and it gives me an opportunity to think. So that’s what I was doing; just thinking.
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I began reminiscing about the places I've been, many of the experiences I've had and the real people in my small circle that I can, without a doubt, call my friends.

I contemplated on what my life would have been like if I made different choices, chose a different path and did what I was told I was “supposed” to be doing (according to “them”).

Anyone who is well versed in The Game will tell you not to have any regrets. Holding onto regrets is very dis-empowering (The Game was designed to be empowering). Regrets make you focus on the past instead of planning for the future and exercising your full power in the present moment. As long as you feel you’re making the best decisions (and I do mean best – no half-ass decision making) for yourself at every moment, what’s there to regret? You've made decisions using the Knowledge, Wisdom and Understanding you had up to that point. You can’t grow unless you’re willing to fail and mess-up a few times. You have to bump your head, scrape your knees, fall down and maybe end up with a few bruises… you get the point I’m making, right?

If you asked me a few years ago, “Would I change anything about my life?” I honestly would have come up with 3 major things – 1 of which resulted in jail time. And the cause of all these situations were the results of poor decision making on my part – no one to blame but me. These bad decisions were the results of my impatience and stubbornness.

I paid the price for the decisions I made. And that’s it, it’s over and done. It’s like that old saying, “Steel sharpens steel,” What I've gone through has made me the person I am today. And I love the person I am today. So, why regret anything?

The point of this post? Stop dwelling on regrets! Don't constantly think that you should have done this, or you could have said that. Examine your mistakes, learn from them and find ways to sharpen your over-all decision making.

The Blog will return in full force next Wednesday. We’ll examine why some of the best paid people in the World make millions by NOT telling the truth. I’m talking about rappers and other music artists, movie producers, politicians, lawyers, CEOs of corporations, shady religious leaders, etc... It'll be fun, trust me! 

More game headed your way… Until then keep it moving!
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Are You Buckling Under Your Own Weight?

4/15/2015

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Ever heard the saying, “What you resist, persists?” In this post we’re going to look at this saying from the Perspective of the Game.

What? You thought we weren't?

Diving right in… During these last couple of weeks, I've had some very interesting conversations. The conclusion? Some people try to avoid Responsibility so they don’t have to carry the weight that comes along with it. I’m human, so I’m guilty of this behavior from time to time also; but I do want to share with you an interesting way to view this.

Avoiding (or ignoring) Responsibility is one of those life problems that can sneak up on you. Then before you know it, stuff around you is falling like dominoes – one thing after another, after another. Like all problems, this needs to be solved.

First we have to answer the question, “What exactly is weight?”

Weight is what you acquire when you take on (and/or accept) the Responsibility of something. A few quick examples:

  • You have a child, you have to carry the weight of taking care of that child. Teaching them, helping them and guiding them.
  • You might take a supervisory/management position on your job. Your work load and what’s now expected of you is the weight you now have to bear.
  • You buy a new car. As this car ages it’s going to need tune-ups, tires, other minor repairs and you also have the burden of insurance, car payments, insurance etc.

As you can see the concept is quite simple and we all carry weight with us every single day of our lives. I can read some of your minds now, “James, isn't this a ‘negative’ way to look at things?” And my simple answer is, “No!”

Then there are others of you who may say, “Well James, isn't this something that every mature person does?” Again, my answer is, “No!” Let’s dig a little deeper…

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Since human beings are naturally geared towards increase (wanting more and more out of life), it would stand to reason that because we’re ‘wired’ this way that we are able to handle whatever we bring into our lives. But not everyone can.

Some people take on so much that they are literally in either a constant state of stress or in a constant state of semi-depression. They aren't happy. And even when they get those moments of happiness, they flee just as fast as they come.

I’m a big advocate of being Responsible. In fact, this is what this post is all about. But what if you’re bringing people, events, situations, relationships, bills and other burdens into your life that you’re truly not ready for?

Most people would teach you to slow down… take things easy… prioritize… organize… examine your life and stick to the most essential things. This is sound advice and I would recommend it. In fact, there’s a saying in the Game, “Never start a pace that you can’t keep up,” Which means that over-extending yourself will eventually lead to taking a loss. Concentrated power in 1 or 2 areas is much stronger than spread-out power over many areas.

(Brace yourself for the, ‘but’)… But, what if you’re not in a position to re-organize? What if you’re not in a position to cut things off or lighten your load? What if you've already taken on so much that (for a while at least) you have to sleep in the bed you made? Now what?

You must learn to welcome the weight. When you avoid the reality of what your current life situation is, this creates the stress… this creates the unhappiness… and this can lead to many physical ailments. When the mind isn't well, the body usually follows.

Change your Perspective – flip the light switch. Welcome the weight – don’t run from it. Invite it, embrace it and face it! “What you resist, persists,” Remember? When you find ways to resist and avoid the weight of everything you’re Responsible for; you’re taking away from the mental, emotional and physical energy that could help you carry your weight a few more steps.

Yes, you need to simplify your life and remove some burdens, but until that time, you have to accept the Responsibility of your choices.

A woman once told me that she used to literally cry real tears every single day on her way to work. She hated her job, she hated the commute, she was constantly talked down to by her bosses and the pay was at the low-end.

So, why did she keep that job? Because her mother had recently passed and she was now responsible for a sudden house payment. She also had a young daughter and now had to move her teenage brother in. Her life changed extremely quickly and the weight on her shoulders almost brought her to her knees. She had to take on this weight with almost no help from family and friends. In fact, some of her family were jealous because she lived in her mother’s house!

It took a couple years of pain, misery and almost losing everything before she “snapped” back into place. She then made many life-changing decisions and was able to lighten the weight on her. One step at a time. Today she has a successful career, is an ordained Minister, heads a charitable organization and has a great relationship with her daughter, brother and grand-child.

Welcome the weight, invite the drama; stop pretending that it doesn't exist. Stop running from it. Stop trying to hide from it. Stop resisting and open the door for it. Find a way to solve those problems!If you’re committed to the solutions, this will lessen unnecessary weight over time.

A consistent problem solver is one of the most sought after personalities on the planet! From leading countries, managing crisis, running companies, designing innovations, developing plans, and even handling everyday life affairs. That’s what a real Player forms themselves into – a reliable problem solver - an individual who's never burdened by the weight they carry. They carry it with calmness and confidence because within themselves they know they can handle anything.

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Real Game: The Art of Verbal Chess (Part 3 - Tonality)

4/8/2015

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More knowledge to improve your communication skills! In part 3 of the Art of Verbal Chess series, we’re going to cover tonality. The way you say something can have a profound effect on even the most basic words.

In this podcast I’m going to teach you 2 basic tonalities that will help you speak to a person’s sub-conscious mind. The words you use are only 1 level of communication. The way you say it is yet another. In fact, the way you say something can be more important than what you actually say. Add in body language and you can create a meaningful impact in even the most boring and mundane conversations.

The Art of Verbal Chess series is designed to help the introverted or less confident person break out of their proverbial “shell”. But they have also been created to give tips and tricks to take control of many of your social interactions.

If you missed Part 1 you can catch it [HERE]

And Part 2 can be found [HERE]

I’m BIG on communication. I honestly feel that learning how to properly communicate and convey your thoughts, feelings and ideas can open (or close) doors in your life. You may not need this information but if you feel you do, then check out this podcast to expand your verbal range and improve your conversational effectiveness. Real Game – Soak it up!

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Ask A Hustler #13: Is Tunnel Vision Harmful?

4/1/2015

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When you look straight forward and refuse to look in any other direction you’re focused. Some people label this as having tunnel vision. Is focusing on where you want to go a detriment? Is it possible that being obsessed with your goals or purpose is harmful? In this podcast I will address all these questions and explain a bitter truth that goes along with becoming great at something.

A lot of people claim they’re willing to sacrifice certain things as a means to an end, but very few realize how deep that rabbit hole really goes. The magic question is, “How bad do you really want what you claim you want?”

When just trying is no longer good enough – when just wanting something really bad is no longer good enough – what’s the alternative? Is being wrapped up in your dreams overdoing it? Or is it a key component to achieving those dreams? Shouldn't we balance chasing our vision with other areas in our life? That’s just “healthy”, right?

Many questions and I have many answers. This is a podcast for the truly introspective.

Whether you’re considering taking that journey or you’re already on it, let me share some Universal Truths that you must know. More Uncommon Sense for the seeker of real self-empowerment!

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